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hey guys. at last i'm back.
it's been a long time. I haven't post anything to my blog.

I want to share something with you guys. Not share something actually,
give you guys some advice, accroding to my experient.
Have you ever been in a relationship?
Now , i want to tell you GUYS how to treat a girl well, how u must have act and what you should do:
1. Give them time. Time is priceless for a girl, when you spend a little time of yours with her it would be a very great thing. Even if it's just for a minute or two. Sometime girl just feel that it's unfair that you GUYS can stand infront of a computer for hours playing online games but can't bear to talk with US just for a couple of minutes.

2. Respect them. Treat them well and the way they should be treated. Girl love when someone love them really from the bottom of their heart. When you love someone unconditionally then u'll respect them too.

3. Hug means 1000 words. When you see your girl, crying. Give them a hug, It means 1000 of words. It can represent how much you do care.

4. Really mean everything you've said. when you said I LOVE YOU , you should really mean it.

5. Don't lie. Once you've lied it will be the worst mistake you will ever make. It's just hard for US to forget it. WE usually easy to trust on someone, especially GUYS. But when you've lied just ONCE you ruin it all. It's just hard to build the same trust.

6. Remember important date. Don't forget any single special day you have together. It means that you care. And WE mean something to you

7. Smile. Smile means everything. When you smile it just turn out to be a bucket of flower for US.

8. Really commit. Don't change your mind as fast as a wink of an eye.

9. Really take this 8 points above you'll be one of the most wanted guys on earth. trust me then.
I wonder if there's one around here. LOL just kidding.

Hey GIRLS, when you haven't found one just like all of this above, you better be single. really.
Now that i'm single and i never feel this happy before. You'll really regret it when you love someone but they don't love you in return. TRUST ME . i've just been through this lately.

The greatest quotes i've ever read

"It takes a second to say I LOVE YOU, but a lifetime to show it"
"Love is not measured by how you feel, but how you make the other person feel"
"Sometimes change is what's best, letting your heart break, and learning how to cope."

These 3 words i've just found are really great.
Back to reality, for me,
Love is a feel that just no one can even describe,
Love is so abstract,
At my age, i still can't find what love really mean, what it meant for , and what it meant to be.
Love is just a feel that makes you want to protect, guard, treat, someone specially.
In the different way from any other else, because we want to.

I do really agree with the first quote above. Why?
I'm telling the truth, this is not a drama, not a scenario, but this is really happening in my life.
When you loved someone you want to show it. Yes it's true
And the easiest way to show it is to saying it.
Sometime you feel really great when the one you loved say that they love you, right?
But when it doesn't come out from their heart already, when it just come out as a habit, not because they really love you? isn't it useless? The word LOVE is there, but it's empty. It's meaningless.
People say "LUV U ALWAYS/FOREVER/FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE", they said it, but when they didn't think what it's really meant and they didn't commit at it, don't take that words seriously. Especially when you're in high school. That word will happen as a bullshit.

Love someone just like the way you are. Don't be somebody else when you love someone. Love them trully from your heart. Don't hope for any feedback. Just do the best you can, and God will prepare the best for us too. Don't cry when someone leave you for stupid reason. Don't waste your time with someone who 'you know' don't really love you.

Wish you all can take a lesson from this post. :))

Life is ain't easy but yet it's worthy

I'm back talking about lifes.
As a teenage i'm still searching for what i live for, and struggle with it. But i'm still trying though

Some people say that you can only live your life once,
Some say that every good deeds that you did, will bring you more luck for your rencarnation (where you'll totally forget about you past life)
I don't even have a clue which one i'm holding to.

But after a long brain-storming, i take my own conclution that whatever life means , whatever it will end , what ever it will brings me to (reincarnation, heaven , or even hell), i'll be living this life the best i could, the way i want it to be.

I'm not being naive, but money can't buy my happiness. Yes, it can makes me happy when 'money' fullfill my needs (everybody feels the same , i believe) But i won't live this life to find money and richness or position.

When money take control of your life, it'll be meaningless.
Cause money is just a piece of paper, is it worthy living through this chaotic and cruel life just for a piece of paper? I don't think so. Not everything can be buy with money.
So many people now like sacrificing everything to get money, even people they love are sacrificed.

Money is like drug when it takes control of your life, once you have it once,
you'll always want it more, and more. And when you lost it you'll do anything to
get it back even it's a crime

So don't you ever let money be your number one priority.

When you can make other people laugh, entertainted, giggle, or smile, through things you made, it will be much more worthy. Do something with your hobby, develop it into something that no one has ever thought before. Isn't it wonderful when you make other people happy as you're happy too? it's like a combo happiness. :))

Life is like walking on a beach side, you'll leave a mark, every step you make will remain if choose a right side where waves can't ever reach it. It's about your decision, you want to be remembered or just past away ?

chef's vs doctor's average salary

it's life..
some people living this life looking for happiness, some looking for position, some living for money. It's once again about decision that people make in their life, what would they want to be.

And I'm the one who is living to be happy, I'm searching for happiness.
Though the happiness is not just for myself, but also for people around me.
Talking about what most people say,
"happiness can't be buy with money." YES , it's true. But...
I'm just trying to be realistic here.

1. To be happy, we need to fullfil our needs

2. To fullfil our needs, we need money.

And so on... So , still money are 100% needed to fullfil every human being happiness.
Still relating with my last post about my dream. chef vs doctor.

I want to share to all of you guys the difference between a chef's and a doctor's salary.
And here's the chart.

This one is doctor's salary

this one is chef's salary

According to this chart. You can see th difference. How much job as a doctor is more promising than a chef?

I wish this chart would help any of you guys who have the same kind of dillema . :))

chef VS doctor

VS

Hi guys, thinking about my future.. Hmm.. Now that i've been in the 11th grade and i've chose science study as my major, I should have think about what major i would like to choose in the university.

In this chaotic world nowaday seems hard to live without hard work, determination, and SKILL.
There are too many smart people around the world. Too many competitor. That's why, i think we should have one specialization which make us differnt from any others.

So many graduates, from many top universities around Indonesia today are jobless. They depend only by their certificate. It's 100% not enough! We have to be creative. We have to make ourselves different in a good way of course.

So... I'm wondering, what makes me different from any other people?
I'm not good in music, I'm not the smartest one in class.
But maybe i'm creative enough though (not being proud)
and one more i love to eat and i really love to cook.

It's such a paradox with my childhood dream, which actually i'm holding to for my future job.
I want to be a doctor like from i was 6 years old. I was inspired by my uncle who is a doctor.
And on July this year, i went to China, Nanning exactly to see my future campus.

But, I don't know why, it seems like i'm not good enough in memorizing things, and i'm not really into studying, I'm not those who likes to read books for hours. I'm just... not really into those things. :(

So, this past few days, I am googlin around, searching for some new major which i really into. and I pick CULINARY as my priority. Base on my hobby to eat and cook.

I think it's not quite a promising job as a doctor.

But life.. We should enjoy it, base on what we like and what we really into.

Isn't it pathetic when someone do things they're not into, for their whole life?

I can't even imagine how hard it is.

So, I'm in such a dillema right now.

Should i pick the more promising job or should i pick the one base on my hobby ?

This is life. It's about making a decision.......

CHEF VS DOCTOR