Friday, July 30, 2010

What I've learned

I'm not old enough to pictured the perfect meaning of life,
but as I've lived for almost 17 years I've learned things,

I've learned that trust is all that matter in a relationship

I've learned that trust is like a vase, once you break it, even how hard you try, it won't ever look the same

I've learned that life is beautiful, but just in some case we're blinded by the cruelty of life

I've learned that we supposed to live for a reason

I've learned that tears are your best friend when you're crying, it relieves all the pain you leave inside

I've learned that life is a roller-coaster, there will always be an up and down, you're not complete when you never feel the 'turning up-side-down point'

I've learned that you have to get rid of what had happened cause you can't turn back time, look forward, and think how not to trip to the same whole

I've learned that you can't never get all the you wanted

I've learned that forgivig is the best way to keep your relationship

I've learned that look will deceive, wealth can fades away, you should've found someone that can heal you through pain and tears, who bring sunshine to the cloudy day

I've learned that when you love someone it feels much more than a word 'I LOVE YOU', it can't be spelled, you just can feel and show it

I've learned that when someone dump you, just let them go, you'll get someone better

I've learned that not every good things you did will remain as 'good' to other people's mind, when there's lover there's hater

I've learned that a true friends are those who forgive and say everything just the way it is

I've learned that you better be yourself, hated, than to be loved by pretending to be someone else

I've learned that a smile worth a thousand 'good' words.

I've learned that your mom will always forgive you

I've learned that you should put your family on top of everythin

I've learned that be grateful for what you have is the best way to feel the complete happiness

I've learned that to be postive is one of the best way to remain happy

I've learned that you could just read this article and think that I'm just talking 'shit' or spamming around, or think that I'm 'acting' wise to get my pride, but whatever you're thinking, I'll take the postive side that you do care and want to spend your time to read my article. So thanks a lot ! :D

tons of things to be learned for the next seconds, hours, days, months, years, I'll be living and can't wait to write it all down :)

May God blesses always be with you,
best regard and love , Claudia Christin

what life is about

Life isn't about keeping score.
It's not about how many friends you have
Or how accepted you are.
Not about if you have plans this weekend or if you're alone.

It isn't about who you have kissed,
It isn't about who your family is or
how much money they have
Or what kind of car you drive.

Or where you are sent to school.
It's not about how beautiful or ugly you are.
Or what clothes you wear, what shoes you have on,
Or what kind of music you listen to.

It's not about if your hair is blonde, red, black, or brown,
Or if your skin is too light or too dark.
Not about what grades you get how smart you are, how smart
everybody else thinks you are, or how smart
standardized tests say you are.

Life just isn't.

Life is about who you love and who you hurt.
It's about who you make happy or unhappy purposely.
It's about keeping or betraying trust.
It's about friendship, used as a sanctity or as a weapon.

It's about what you say and mean, maybe hurtful, maybe heartening.
It's about starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip.
It's about what judgments you pass and why.
And who your judgments are spread to.

It's about who you've ignored with full control and intention.
It's about jealousy, fear, ignorance, and revenge.
It's about carrying inner hate and love,
letting it grow and spreading it.

But most of all, it's about using your life to touch or poison
other people's hearts in such a way that could have
never occurred alone.

Only you choose the way those hearts are affected, and those
choices are what life's all about.

Today let this rainbow remind your friends and family
of what life is really all about.

Everything happens for a reason

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, they serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become.



You never know who these people may be; your roommate, your neighbor, professor, long lost friend, lover or even a complete stranger who, when you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.



And sometimes things happen to you and at the time they seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never have realized your potential, strength, will power of heart.



Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments or true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of the soul.



Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smooth paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.



The people you meet who affect your life and successes and downfalls you experience, they are the ones who create who you are. Even the bad experience can be learned from... Those lessons are the hardest and probably the most important ones.


If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart... forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.



If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them.



Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen, let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high. You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it.



I wish you all the best in your endeavors as well as struggles in life. Have a fighting spirit and never hesitate to get back in the struggle!
A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman," she told him.

"I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

" All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"

God said: "
When I made the woman she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children. I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly. I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly. And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."


"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

Mother's 'no charge' Love

A little boy came up to his mother in the kitchen one evening while she was fixing supper, and handed her a piece of paper that he had been writing on. After his Mom dried her hands on an apron, she read it, and this is what it said:

For cutting the grass: $5.00
For cleaning up my room this week: $1.00
For going to the store for you: $.50
Baby-sitting my kid brother while you went shopping: $.25
Taking out the garbage: $1.00
For getting a good report card: $5.00
For cleaning up and raking the yard: $2.00
Total owed: $14.75

Well, his mother looked at him standing there, and the boy could see the memories flashing through her mind. She picked up the pen, turned over the paper he'd written on, and this is what she wrote:

For the nine months I carried you while you were growing inside me:
No Charge

For all the nights that I've sat up with you, doctored and prayed for you:
No Charge

For all the trying times, and all the tears that you've caused through the years:
No Charge

For all the nights that were filled with dread, and for the worries I knew were ahead:
No Charge

For the toys, food, clothes, and even wiping your nose:
No Charge

Son, when you add it up, the cost of my love is:
No Charge.

When the boy finished reading what his mother had written, there were big tears in his eyes, and he looked straight at his mother and said, "Mom, I sure do love you." And then he took the pen and in great big letters he wrote: "PAID IN FULL".

be grateful, I love this story :)

Should you find something on your dinner plate that doesn't appeal to you, don't complain. There are people who don't have anything on their plate.


Should you find yourself stuck in traffic, don't despair. There are people in this world for whom driving is an unheard of privilege.


Should you despair over a relationship gone bad, think of the person who has never known what it's like to love and be loved in return.

Should you grieve the passing of another weekend, think of the woman in dire straits, working twelve hours a day, seven days a week to feed her children.


Should your car break down, leaving you miles away from assistance, think of the paraplegic who would love the opportunity to take that walk

Positive Mind just another inspiring stories

Read this, and let it really sink in... Then, choose your outlook of life... whether if its a sunrise or a sunset....


Jerry is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!" He was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had followed him around from restaurant to restaurant. The reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him, I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?" Jerry replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, Jerry, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood. I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life. "Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested. "Yes, it is," Jerry said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live life." I reflected on what Jerry said. Soon thereafter, I left the restaurant industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.

Several years later, I heard that Jerry did something you are never supposed to do in a restaurant business: he left the back door open one morning and was held up at gun point by three armed robbers. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him. Luckily, Jerry was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local trauma center. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body.

I saw Jerry about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?" I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place. “The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door," Jerry replied. "Then, as I lay on the floor, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live or I could choose to die. I chose to live."

"Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked. Jerry continued, "...the paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the ER and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read 'he's a dead man.' I knew I needed to take action." " What did you do?" I asked. "Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Jerry. "She asked if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes,' I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, 'Bullets!' Over their laughter, I told them, 'I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead.'" Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully. Attitude, after all, is everything.

Value of a Smile :)

The value of a smile is priceless, yet it is the cheapest, easiest, most rewarding and most sincere gift to anyone that crosses your path. A smile makes a person's day, anybody's day even a stranger's day. A smile is infectious. Start infecting people with your smile today.

A smile is nature's best antidote for discouragement. It brings rest to the weary, sunshine to those who are sad, and hope to those who are hopeless and defeated.

A smile is so valuable that it can't be bought, begged, borrowed, or taken away against your will. You have to be willing to give a smile away before it can do anyone else any good.

So if someone is too tired or grumpy to flash you a smile, let him have one of yours anyway. Nobody needs a smile as much as the person who has none to give

author : Francie Baltazar-Schwartz

Inspiring Stories

Gw sedang 'keranjingan' baca cerita2 yang menginspirasi . :D
Entah kenapa setiap gw baca cerita2 itu,
gw merasa ad aja hal yang bisa dipetik dari bacaan itu buat gw lakuin di hidup gw ini,
2 post sebelumnya , gw meng'copy' beberapa cerita yang menurut gw cukup 'meaningful'
Semoga temen2 pas baca cerita2 yang bakalan gw post nanti akan terinspirasi juga! :D
and btw , ini post pertama gw dengan bahasa Indonesia lohh.
Lagi mau mencoba sesuatu yang baru aja. Mungkin di post2 berikutnya gw akan pake bahasa inggris lagi, sekalian buat melatih writting skills gw buat tes IELTS nanti .
GBU guys

You Are

One day not too long ago the employees of a large company in St. Louis, Missouri returned from their lunch break and were greeted with a sign on the front door. The sign said: "Yesterday the person who has been hindering your growth in this company passed away. We invite you to join the funeral in the room that has been prepared in the gym."

At first everyone was sad to hear that one of their colleagues had died, but after a while they started getting curious about who this person might be. The excitement grew as the employees arrived at the gym to pay their last respects. Everyone wondered: "Who is this person who was hindering my progress? Well, at least he's no longer here!"

One by one the employees got closer to the coffin and when they looked inside it they suddenly became speechless. They stood over the coffin, shocked and in silence, as if someone had touched the deepest part of their soul.

There was a mirror inside the coffin: everyone who looked inside it could see himself. There was also a sign next to the mirror that said:
"There is only one person who is capable to set limits to your growth: it is YOU."


YOU are the only person who can revolutionize your life.
YOU are the only person who can influence your happiness, your realization and your success.
YOU are the only person who can help yourself.

Your life does not change when your boss changes, when your friends change, when your parents change, when your partner changes, when your company changes.

Your life changes when YOU change, when you go beyond your limiting beliefs, when you realize that YOU ARE the only one responsible for your life.


author : nn
sources :
http://www.wow4u.com

Love and Time

Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including Love. One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all constructed boats and left. Except for Love.

Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment.

When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.

Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said,
"Richness, can you take me with you?"
Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you."

Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. "Vanity, please help me!"
"I can't help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered.

Sadness was close by so Love asked, "Sadness, let me go with you."
"Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!"

Happiness passed by Love, too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her.

Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come, Love, I will take you." It was an elder. So blessed and overjoyed, Love even forgot to ask the elder where they were going. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her own way. Realizing how much was owed the elder,

Love asked Knowledge, another elder, "Who Helped me?"
"It was Time," Knowledge answered.
"Time?" asked Love. "But why did Time help me?"
Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is."

sources : http://www.indianchild.com

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

I admires him



Yes, he is Brian McKnight,
One of my most favourite singer ever,
(beside John Mayer, Ne-Yo)
This is one of my favourite song,
BACK AT ONE,
this is one of the best version I've ever heard.
Enjoy

Sunday, July 25, 2010

completely dumb. sorry

sorry guys, for the late design of t-shirt,
i've made the most stupid mistake ,
K3 represent for SDK 3 not SMAK 3 ,
well my bad, and I feel so dumb once I knew it . :p
I'll make another one, wait for it,
I will make it with more variative design.

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

visit these blogs!

I just want to share with you guys the blogs i've just visited recently ,

Dunia ini aneh
http://duniainianeh.blogspot.com/
Managed by my classmate, Evan Junius, our 'head minister' in XIIA2,
Funny blog, humorous, hilarious, I just can't stop laughing reading his stuffs,
when you're stressed out , read his blog, and I guarantee you'll be entertained

Tepology
http://tepology.blogspot.com
Owns by Stephanie Olivia, she writes everything on her mind right down there,
you can find everything there, about life, love, fashion, ect.

Denis Hans
http://denishans.blogspot.com
Managed by Denis Hans. with the title "God will make a way"
wish you guys can be inspired through what he wrote, what he shared down there,
this is a new blog , perhaps he'll post more things down there

beautiful INDONESIA

It's been quite a long time, I don't post anything here,

well, the first reason I'm quite busy with so many task to do and else,

and the second reason because I don't have any idea what to write down here

well before, I've promised you guys about the photo I've taken in Bromo,

I've delayed it for so loooong, I'm so sorry,

but here's some low quality pictures I've taken there,

enjoy :D












See? Indonesia is actually has a lot of beautiful places,
never before passed my mind that we have this kind of places,
such a great view,
Let's Thank our God Who has made such an unbelievable scenery,
How great is our God.
Be thankful ppl. :D