Thursday, May 6, 2010

sometime you need to trust no one but yourself

Hello again people. Don't you think that I'm really active at posting things up to my blog? Am I overactive ? I hope you don't think so :D
Okay, let me start to share something with you all,
It's once again talking about trust to other people,
have you ever heard quotes which said "You can't live when you trust no body"
maybe this is not the exact quotation, but overall it's what the quote means.
Have you ever faced by two different fact from two different persons you trust at the same time?
For example,

situation 1
You : what's in the box?
Mother : jewelery
(then your mother go, and your father come)
You : what's in the box?
Father : Shoes

It's just a simple example, actually in real life it'll be much more complicated than these situations. Where you're standing between a line of two different fact which you don't really know which one is the true one and once you believe in one of the fact given, it'll change your whole mind about something/someone.

So, let's move on into a more complicated situation.
In high school life, it's just really ordinary when you're talking about other people,
There are things, I still can't figure out why, when someone talking about bad things about "their friends" infront someone else. Can you called them "friends"?
There are people who easily influent by someone else's statement about someone,

Here is the example

situation 2
Person 1 : He is such a freak.
You : really?
Person 1 : Yes. He's a freak. Don't get near him, or you'll be freak too.
You : Well, ok... (got influent)

Ok, actually this example is a little bit witty, but at least you can take my point, right?
Yes, this is where I mean you need to trust no one but yourself,
When you're faced by a statemen just like those one,
You may trust them, but don't trust it 100% when you don't really know it by yourself,
Sometime there are people who hate someone else without any specific reason, strange huh? Yeah, usually they are people who got influenced by their friends or surroundings.
I think, this is not a good action. Because when you don't really know the fact by yourself, the information you hear might be not the right one.
Because while information passes from one person to another, it may change through any mouth, so when you hear it, it is not the same with the first original story already.
When you're faced with those statement, don't take it seriously, just take it as an additional information. If you want to judge someone, you need to really know them by yourself. Don't judge people through other people becuse it's unfair.
Well, that's it. But one thing we can't stop trusting in, is our God ! cause he never lie and he keeps his words, forever. :D D D

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